I am a dork...LOL

So it has been a while since I have been able to post. I am an accountant and if you have ever heard of a hunter's widow there is also such a thing as an accountant's widow during tax season and unfortunately that time has come.

So yes I prepared taxes the other night even in my dream how SICK. Anyway. Now that a new year has come and we aren't traveling to our families houses so much we have attempted to get to know our new hometown. So we have started going to a church that is very welcoming. It is nice. A compromise on both of our parts because Char is Catholic and I was raised baptist and even though baptists are crazy against gays and lesbians I like the feel of the way a baptist preacher preaches and I am not so used to the repeat after me stuff and communion every sunday deal. So this church is kinda a mixture of both.

I also joined a women's football team. We are the Shreveport Aftershock formerly known as the Shreveport ShockHers. Saturday was my first practice with the team and boy am I out of shape. I think that last time I really ran I mean REALLY RAN SPRINTED was like 8 yrs ago. How pityfull is that. I was ashamed. So needless to say I have a lot of work to do.

We also finally went to the local gay bar. Saturday was the Mardi Gras parade here and after words we went to "The Corner". It was small but great everyone was nice and they played all kinds of music not just the techno dance same beat to every song no matter what the words are someone beat on my head stuff. Which of course is ok if that is what you like.

On the baby front...We have been doing the charting now for about half to 3/4 of Char's first cycle. We bought the pee on the stick ovulation kit. As soon as Char finds out when her insurance kicks in we are going to the doc to get the rest going. We are making progress though and finally it is starting to feel a bit more real.

I cant wait. Imagine I can't wait now how in the world am I going to make it through the tww. I think I might go crazy. Everytime I walk in a store I automatically gravitate to the baby section even in the grocery store. LOL. Everything is just so cute. And soft and well you all know.

So that is an update for now. Must get back to the numbers that now creep into my dreams.

OH YEAH WHY AM I A DORK. I must explain the title of this blog. Well you see the way I found out about the women's football team was through this girl who saw me at the gym when Char and I were working out. She wasn't hitting on me or anything but clearly I am not a slender delicately looking girl, so she approaches us and was like do you play sports? and proceeded to tell me I should come tryout for their team. So I went after practice I was saying thanks for letting me know about this and see ya later yada yada and she was like call when you get ready to work out and maybe we can all start working out together (ALL=her, her mom's girlfriend who's the quarterback, char, me and whoever else). I told her why don't you call me because I dont have a scheduled deal going on or anything. We talked some more and she invited me and char over to watch the L word last night. About half the team goes over there to watch it. So I go and what a shy intimidated little idiot I was. I don't know what the deal was because usually I am a smart ass but I didn't know what to say. I was all quiet and akward. I think part of it was that I am pretty out of shape compared to alot of the girls, I haven't been around that many lesbians just hangin out before (that was great but i think we hide down here in the south), Char couldn't go because of work so I was by myself, and I dont know. I just really felt like a dork. POOOO. I think sometimes I am boring or something. Some of them were talking about getting a tatoo. I was just like yeah cool. I have no tatoos and dont desire to have a tatoo. I dont look down on people who do, Char has four. But I just dont get excited about them either you know. I think it is great for them yeah cool but I dont have anything to compare it to and just dont get excited about it so (a dork once again). Well that explains what a dork I am